Yearly Archives: 2012

Paring Down

Guys, I did it. I took a major step today. I deleted the following from my iPhone:

Words with Friends
Hanging with Friends
Draw Something

Last week I also went through and un-followed a BUNCH of people on twitter, and I went through my Google reader to get rid of blogs I don't really follow that clog up my feed.

It initially made me feel anxious, like I was missing something important. But now? Now it feels GREAT.

I've been on a kick lately of getting rid of things I don't need in my life, or things that make me feel behind/take up too much time/are a uesless waste of time. Those games on my phone were DEFINITELY one of those things I didn't need in my life. It made me feel anxious - every time I opened my phone I had lists of notifications of games I need to play. I'm anal about keeping my phone neat, so I HATED seeing those little red numbers in the upper corners of my apps showing me I needed to play games. So I'd sit down and play them multiple times a day, just to get rid of those numbers. Then people would play me back right away and I'd be anxious to get rid of those numbers again. And it made me feel like I was behind - like I couldn't keep up with these games. HOW RIDICULOUS IS THAT? If something so stupid as a game on my iPhone is making me feel behind in life, I gotta get rid of it. So I did. And it feels great.

Twitter and my Google reader were the same way. Every time I opened them, there were hundreds of unread blog posts, hundreds of tweets since the last time I checked my phone. I always feel the need to go through each and every one (not sure why) - so paring down whose blog I follow and who I follow on Twitter felt like heaven.

Before, when I'd need a little break during the day, I'd check my phone - twitter, facebook, instagram, draw something, words with friends, hanging with friends, etc. Once I realized these little "breaks" were making me feel even more behind/anxious, I knew they had to go. Now instead of checking anything technology related, I'll grab Holly and we'll go for a quick walk around the block, just to get outside and clear my head. Much more healthy, and such a better way to clear my brain. Cause I don't want to feel behind and anxious. I want to feel like this girl, who clearly has not a care in the world:

 

Napping is her specialty.

 

Her biggest concern here is, "dude, why did you just wake me up from my nap?"

 

So content:)

Anyone else feel like that lately? Let me tell you, it feels GREAT to pare down a little!

PS - I had to keep Scramble with Friends on my phone. Cause it's the best:)

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Joan - May 17, 2012 - 5:24 pm

So glad to hear this Tina! Walking Holly is definitely more relaxing than anxiety provoking games on a electronic device! She loves it too!

Allison - May 17, 2012 - 11:17 am

Good for you, Tina! I should really do the same…thanks for the encouragement! I LOVE the photos of your pup! Makes me want to join her in that cozy bed!

Isabel - May 17, 2012 - 10:08 am

You’re sooo not the only one. I did the same thing a few weeks back and the relief has been amazing. :)

Amanda - May 17, 2012 - 10:02 am

YES! I have been reading lots of articles lately about how addictions to our technology robs our children of much needed attention. It is so sad. I have been making an effort to keep my phone out of sight when I’m with Ava. It is harder than you’d think! Because of that, I have been MIA from Twitter and only occasionally check FB (that one is hard b/c of my work), and have never felt more “present” in my real life. Good for you! Too bad I can’t play Draw with you though…. (Sorry I wrote a novel!)

April - May 17, 2012 - 9:59 am

YES! I totally know where you’re coming from! I unfollowed & deleted a lot of people/things recently too – including facebook, which is just crazy, right? It’s so freeing though. Such cute photos btw. I’d love an afternoon like that :)

Amanda Young - May 17, 2012 - 9:53 am

P.S. Can we figure out how to pare down FB? BIGGEST DISTRACTION EVER.

Amanda Young - May 17, 2012 - 9:52 am

I was wondering where Scramble fell in that list… now PLAY ME! ;)

Gail - May 17, 2012 - 9:44 am

YEAHHH so proud of you for doing this! I’m sure it was hard…reading this makes me glad I never put any of those games on my phone to start with!

Princeton Engagement Photographer: Melissa & Bhavyank

Melissa & Bhavyank were two of the easiest people to photograph - they have a great relationship, and are always making each other laugh:) We wandered around the grounds of Princeton's campus for their engagement session. I LOVE shooting there, the campus is absolutely gorgeous. Everywhere you turn there are awesome little spots for photos - so we took full advantage:)

Here are some of my favorites from their session:

 

See what I mean? Gorgeous:)

 

LOVE this one:)

 

One of my favorites!

 

This right here is why I love this couple - this wasn't scripted, I didn't ask Melissa to throw her head back and laugh - they were just hanging out while I was getting set up, and I snagged this quick:)

 

So pretty!

 

Love these two:) I can't WAIT for the wedding!

 

Another one of my favorites!

 

Aaand a third favorite of mine:)

I had such a great time hanging out with you guys for the night! Can't wait for the wedding in just a few short weeks!

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Michele - May 16, 2012 - 3:29 pm

Gorgeous photos. I especially love the b&w’s.

Neeti - May 15, 2012 - 7:52 pm

Melissa, Bhayvank you both look amazing!! With the wedding dress an all the bells and whistles it will be more amazing!! Love all your poses!!

Amanda - May 15, 2012 - 4:50 pm

The tree lined sidewalk is beautiful! Those are my favorites :)

Cindy/Mom - May 11, 2012 - 4:47 pm

I love the same ones that you like, but there were a few more that I like as well. Do I get to pick one? I can’t wait for the wedding as well. Love you both!

Cait - May 11, 2012 - 12:42 pm

I LOVE this couple!! How gorgeous are they!! Those last few are just AWESOME!! Fabulous Tina!

Jess - May 11, 2012 - 9:35 am

Especially love those last two with the lights! Beautiful!!

Ashley, Erik, Henry & Anna

This is one of my favorite families in the world to photograph, they're the sweetest family of four:) I've been photographing them since Ashley was pregnant with their oldest son, Henry, and we've had a bunch of other sessions along the way:) Erik is Jay's cousin and was the best man in our wedding, so these shoots are always a great way to get together - even if it's just for an hour or two, I love being able to catch up when we're back in Jay's home town of Greensburg.

Here are some of my favorites from their session, it's been so fun watching their family grow!

 

Such a precious photo of momma and Anna on the left - it's one of my favorites from the session:)

 

Cutie pie!

 

Love these two!

Thanks guys! Can't wait to hang out again in June:)

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Jess - May 11, 2012 - 9:38 am

Awesome family photo shoot! Gorgeous family and gorgeous location!

Amanda - May 11, 2012 - 12:44 am

Oh my heavens. The one of the little boy kissing his sister on the cheek is PRECIOUS! So so cute!

Kathy Kenney - May 10, 2012 - 8:25 am

What can I say? You are so good at what you do Tina. I just love the photo shoot and how you capture the beauty of your subjects and of course my children and grand-children. Job well done as usual!

Sarah - May 9, 2012 - 6:50 pm

Such a great shoot. Love the scenery!

Katrina Lucas - May 9, 2012 - 4:24 pm

What great photos of my sister’s family! Aren’t my neice and nephew the cutest!?!?! Tina, you’re so wonderful at what you do! I can’t wait for our shoot when my baby boy #2 arrives!

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